One of the blogs to which I subscribe is Which me am I today?
The author is Wendy Mitchell who, on the 31st July 2014 was diagnosed with Young onset dementia.
This is a truly valiant woman, who lets nothing get her down. Since her diagnosis she has written three books, has appeared in podcasts and radio interviews and is actively involved with others to share what you can do even if you have dementia in any form. By the way, she has also done a companion skydive!!
Today’s post was headed My August Visit to Paradise When Wendy woke to find her train was cancelled with no warning, she set about finding an alternate route to get to her destination. After several changes of train she eventually arrived in Keswick, her Happy Place.
She walks for miles every morning with her camera, usually at dawn, looking for what she calls “the magic moments” in each new day. Being outside in nature is “an escape from dementia”, she says. “It may sound strange, but it feels like it’s diluting it when I’m out in the open. Because when you’re inside, you’re closed in, and it feels like dementia is immediately surrounding you.”
“Since publishing her first memoir, it is this sense of altruism that has characterised Mitchell’s writing and advocacy – an outstretched act of generosity that has seen her, with the help of her co-writer Anna Wharton, tackle the truisms and misconceptions of a degenerative condition that is still so wildly misunderstood.” So wrote Kat Lister a Guardian journalist following a meeting with Wendy.
“Living with dementia, nine years on, the clouds descend more frequently now,” Mitchell writes of her neurocognitive symptoms in the opening pages of the book. And yet: “What keeps me going during those foggy days is hope.”
She has since written two more books and on those days when my very minor age-related problems (arthritis,I can’t walk as far as I used to or lift heavy objects) get to me, I read her blog posts or one of her books and now how grateful I should be, and am.
“Start each day with a positive thought and a grateful heart.”
― Roy T. Bennett, The Light in the Heart