“Instructions for living a life.
Tell about it.”
About this time of the year, I look back on what has gone before and set some goals for the next 12 months. Not Resolutions as I know that for me they don’t last through the first two months and are usually dead before the end of January.
I use as my guide what I learned from the story of Noah and the Ark. I first wrote about this in January 2012 and then used it again in December 2014. The following year, 2015 was not great, my Late Love the Architect died and 2016 was hardly any better. I had my misadventure in April and then my contretemps with a chair and a rug in December, so I was glad to see the back of that year.
And now it’s 2018 and I am looking back on 2017. So what did I learn?
- I did listen to the voice within when deciding to remain in my little apartment in my daughter’s house.
- I followed my intuition that I would be safe here
- I hadn’t made my preparations in advance as originally, this was to be a stop-gap while I found somewhere else to live.
- My life was built on strong foundations and those foundations are my two very supportive children and daughter-in-law, and the four large grandsons who are growing into fine young men.
- My possessions were brought from storage and some fitted well into my new little abode. The rest found new homes via the Salvation Army. A win-win situation.
- Once again, I chose my companions well and cut the few toxic people out of my life
- I still love my companions and fellow travellers.
- And some of these travellers aka my children I set free once again to return as and when they wish or if they are needed.
- Yes, I did listen to other people’s opinions but always made my own decisions.
- I learned that living in a house with two teenage Grandsons is never boring.
- I make time for quiet meditation which nurtures my soul.
- I embraced many new experiences since writing the original posts.
- I was brought up in England and have always loved the feel of the gentle rain on my face.
- And I also love the sunshine and notice how differently people behave when the sun is shining.
- I volunteered at another Hospice; the one where my Late Love died and continue to believe I got more from the experience than anyone at the Hospice does.
- I have learned to accept the assistance offered by others – I hope this acceptance has been gracious.
- I know that there will be hard times interspersed with the sunshine and light.
- I have known for a long time that we share this planet with a myriad of other creatures both large and small, and we
don’tmust share the bounties with them
- I continue to nurture an attitude of gratitude. I am very aware of how very lucky I have been all my life.
- I know that one woman with a strong belief in herself can overcome just about anything life can throw at her.
So with a cheerful heart and a desire to see what this New Year will bring this aged adventurer, I am ready for 2018.
“I think of life itself now as a wonderful play that I’ve written for myself,
and so my purpose is to have the utmost fun playing my part.”
Shirley Maclaine – American actress, singer, dancer, activist, and author