“Tell me, what is it you plan to do
with your one wild and precious life?”
Mary Oliver, 1935 -
Well now a change in lifestyle for me.
I arrived home safely from my European adventure. And what an adventure that was. After almost 11 weeks I was happy to be back home and ready to begin the next phase in this life.
I have lived alone for 15 years since my Dashing Young Scotsman died and thought I would spend the rest of my life so. I was happy with my family, friends and little dog and then into this settled life came another Dashing but older man, to take me to pastures new. He has a passion for music, for travel and as an architect, for beautiful buildings. Of course, we plan to go back to Florence together in the New Year.
So lots of pluses to this new life. But there are some major changes to get used to when living daily with another. For so many years I made decisions, appointments and plans with no thought for another. Now there are two of us to consider. I think when living alone one does become rather selfish and so it’s very good to have to stop and think before I say “Yes” to an invitation. The other person must be considered too. I am learning here.
We are very involved in selling this current house (see the garden view into the beech forest as the header to the blog) and building another house. Daily I am involved in decisions on the new house and it’s very exciting.
And I am so excited. My sister in London has agreed to come for a visit in the New Year. None of my family has ever been here so I shall enjoy showing her this beautiful country and introducing her to my friends and my special friend when she gets here.
So much to look forward to and so much to be grateful for. Each day I note all the things for which I am grateful my health, my lifestyle, my friends, my family.
I have been absent from the blogosphere for a few weeks while I become adjusted to this new way of life, but now I am back. I hope/expect to have more adventures in the future (and at present) that I should like to share with you.
I have been re-reading Mary Oliver recently and so I have another favourite quote to share with you
“….there was a new voice
which you slowly
recognized as your own,
that kept you company
as you strode deeper and deeper
into the world,
determined to do
the only thing you could do –
determined to save
the only life you could save.”
- One day I’ll stop quoting Mary Oliver. But not today. (thescentofwater.typepad.com)
- Poem of the Week: “Mindful” by Mary Oliver (centerforpoetry.wordpress.com)
- Your Next Adventure (chokureiseattle.wordpress.com)