In August 2017 I wrote a blog post with the same title. The post was about these three words, used often in every day language, but sometimes misused and/or ill defined.
Serendipity is defined as –
the occurrence and developments of events by chance, in a happy or beneficial way.
In the earlier post I told how my good friend and sister of choice, Chris at BridgesBurning wrote about the serendipity of three people, all in different continents, two in the Northern Hemisphere and one far away in the Southern, connected over a comment on Skype. And into our friendship of two there came another one.
Synchronicity is defined as –
the simultaneous occurrence of events which appear signiicantly related
but have no discernible causal connection.
And according to Carl Jung – synchronicity is an ever present reality for those who have eyes to see.
These words, Synchronicity and Serendipity, are often confused and used in the wrong context. They are quite different and should be used differently. As I pointed out in the earlier post- it would not have been correct for Chris to use synchronicity in her telling, but it is correct when we both write about the same thing in a blog post. Or when I send an email saying we should Skype only to find that she has sent the exact email to me.
And we often find this synchronicity in our every day life. I recall a perfect example of this when training to be a Life Coach many years ago. I had read about Sedona in Arizona; the red rocks and the general feeling of spiritual well-being; and the artists and healers who flock there, and so determined that I would go there in the not too distant future. The course was conducted on a phone link of 2 hours each Monday evening. Once soon after I logged in, I heard one of the other participants talking about a visit he had made to Sedona the previous year and how he was planning on returning the next year for the Sedona Film Festival.
My mind/imagination was captured by this place and then the next morning, in an email from my sister in Los Angeles, she said she thought the next time I visited we should go to Sedona as she had heard such great things about it.
Well didn’t that exactly meet the definition – significantly related but have no discernible causal connection?
And serendipity at work again the shortly after the death of The Architect, I was thinking about him and about the firm he had established many years ago. Later that day I was at the hospice where he had died, and learned that it was his old firm that would be doing the architectural work for the new hospice building.
And coincidence? I often say that there is no such thing as coincidence, but do I really believe that? There is definitely synchronicity, serendipity and probably there is room for coincidence too.
The definition of Coincidence is –
Several years ago I was in London for the weekend. The elderly woman for whom I was playing companion went off to a wedding which left me free. It just so happened that friends were visiting London from NZ and we decided to meet up. The first evening we went around the corner from their apartment looking for some place to have a drink and decide where to eat. Imagine my surprise when, on turning the corner, I saw three other friends, a couple from Auckland, NZ and one from Sydney, Australia. I hadn’t seen any of these people for several years, so their being in London at just that particular weekend, and at that time, in that bar was certainly a coincidence. And –
“If there were no such thing as coincidence,
there would be no such word”
Heron Carvic (born Geoffrey Rupert William Harris)
English actor writer. 1913 – 1980
And why am I revisiting this earlier post? On Monday, January 4, I posted about my word for the coming year. That word is Hope and with it comes all the great things we can hope for in this coming year. Today I met a friend for lunch at a garden centre. The choice of venue was hers and the reason for the location was so that she could buy me my Christmas present. I chose a rose. She had arrived earlier than me and on looking around the centre her eyes had alighted on a particular rose. And its name is HOPE. Without a doubt, this is Synchronicity at work again. And by the way, this friend is not a follower of my blog.
“Hope can be a powerful force. Maybe there’s no actual magic in it,
but when you know what you hope for most and hold it like a light within you,
you can make things happen, almost like magic.”
Laini Taylor, American Young Adult Fantasy Author