Today I waved goodbye to my youngest grandson. He’s on the way to University in Christchurch in the South Island and on the way to the next stage of his life. I can hardly believe that little boy who wasn’t even born when his grandfather died, is old enough to strike out on his own.
His mother and I shall miss him and his older brother will be lost without him, although sometimes one could imagine that they don’t even like each other.
So good luck Darling No. 4. He is the last one to leave school and start at University. What a great time he is going to have and as Dr Seuss says:
Today is your day.
You’re off to Great Places!
You’re off and away!
You have brains in your head.
You have feet in your shoes
You can steer yourself
any direction you choose.
You’re on your own. And you know what you know.
And YOU are the guy who’ll decide where to go.
Out there things can happen and frequently do
to people as brainy and footsy as you.
And when things start to happen, don’t worry. Don’t stew.
Just go right along. You’ll start happening too.
Today is your day!
Your mountain is waiting
So..get on your way!
Two years ago the 13th February was a Friday and I wrote about superstition and then went on to write about my day; a beautiful sunny day in Ohope on the east coast of the North Island of New Zealand. On days like that, this certainly is Godzone. And what was I doing? I was Watching. Here’s part of that blog post:
Today I am watching
- The way a newly born baby attracts people and noticing the joy of being allowed to hold her
- The huge waves rolling onto the beach; they are quite magnificent in their power
- Surfers battling these waves and some succeeding in standing up
- Children paddling in the surf
- Two older couples just enjoying the sunshine, sand, and the water’s edge
- Puffs of smoke emanating from White Island – New Zealand’s most active cone volcano. It’s very close only 48kms/30 miles from shore. It’s puffing away merrily today.
- And strangers interacting as they meet on the beach
- A couple walking their dogs
- A small child clambering onto a tyre strung up to make a swing
- My partner stretched out on a lounger contentedly reading
- Teachers from the local school rounding up the pupils
- A group of teenagers enjoying their lunch on the beach
- The same group chasing each other and generally having fun
- The brilliant sun shining down onto our part of the world that we call Paradise.”
So different from today Again, it raining and windy – oh where has summer gone?
But some summers are brilliant. And as a reminder, here’s a photo of the beach in front of our house in Ohope.
“Abundant sunshine, warm waters and safe swimming make Ōhope Beach the perfect summer holiday destination. Maybe that’s why it was voted NZ’s Most Loved Beach—with 11 km of easily walkable white sand beach from the Ōhiwa Harbour entrance all the way to West End.” Whakatane.com Information.
And have you had a chance to look at my new blog, Books&morebooks
where I review the books I have read.? Maybe there’s a book that appeals to you.
Pohutokawa, NZ Christmas Tree
Image via Wikipedia
“Santa Baby, slip a sable under the tree
been an awful good girl, Santa baby,
so hurry down the chimney tonight.
Santa baby, a 54 convertible too,
I’ll wait up for you dear,
Santa baby, so hurry down the chimney tonight.”
Always at this time of the year, I have a flashback to Eartha Kitt singing “Santa Baby” She doesn’t want much. Apart from the sable and the convertible above, she asks for a yacht, a platinum mine, a duplex and checks, Christmas decorations from Tiffany’s and a ring. Well a girl has to know what she wants. And of course, this is all in fun. Watch and listen here.
But what do you want for Christmas? Last year Katie at k8edid put her wishes in a very clever verse. So what is it that you want for Christmas, apart that is, for world peace and everybody being well housed, fed and clothed?
And what do I want for me? Well, I really don’t want any more ‘stuff’. I have spent the past two and half years clearing it all out and now find that it is perfectly possible to live with so much less ‘stuff’.
- What I want is the love and friendship of my children, their spouses and their children
- I would like to keep the level of health that I now enjoy
- And while keeping my old friends, I would like to meet some new ones.
What do I want for others?
- What I particularly want is for all children in the world to find a happy and safe place to grow up in, knowing that they are loved, respected and cared for so they may grow up to be happy, well-rounded young people.
Here in New Zealand we have a dismal record of child abuse. I should like this to be addressed here and all around the world.
- I would like all children to know a world where they are not surrounded by war, bombs and deprivation
- I should like all children to have enough to eat, fresh water to drink and clothes to keep them warm
- For the adults –
- Of course, peace and security
- Love and friendship
- Good health
- The freedom that we enjoy to express their beliefs openly without fear of reprisal
So what do you want for Christmas ? For my friends of the Jewish faith please forgive my ignorance if I ask whether you exchange gifts at this time of the year – Hanukkah; and I address the same questions to my Muslim friends and any Buddhists or other religions who might read my blog.
Whatever your religious beliefs, I hope you have a happy time shared with family and friends.
“What a bargain grandchildren are!
I give them my loose change and they give me
a million dollars worth of pleasure.”
Gene Perret, American Comedy Writer
One of the reasons I started on my blogging journey was to record my thoughts and activities for my grandsons so they would know what the Granma was about in her later years. One of things I love about blogging on an almost daily basis is that it gives me the ability to look back and clearly see what I was doing and thinking earlier.
Today, July 20 I looked back a whole year ago and discovered Happy Granma’s Day. Did you read it when I was a very new blogger with few followers – here’s the link in case you didn’t.
Re reading this post made me smile. What a lovely day we had all together. The boys enjoyed it as much as their Granma did I am sure.
The patio is now completely finished of course, and looks totally different and I am so glad that I had the boys to help.
Rob beavering away but can’t we afford shoes?
James and Jae
And four extra hands are welcome
The boys are all a year older. The eldest is leaving school this year and going on to University, the others are all moving through their school journey. All four of them are busy and active in a variety of sports, and some times, when they are playing close to home, I even get to watch.
I enjoyed this look back one year to experience once again that fabulous day. Thank you boys for making it so special!
“Our grandchildren accept us for ourselves,
without rebuke or effort to change us,
as no one in our entire lives has ever done,
not our parents, siblings, spouses,
friends – and hardly ever
our own grown children.
~Ruth Goode, author 1902-1997
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