This is the post I originally wrote on Sunday and then after it was posted, I got cold feet and changed it. However, I do know that some of you read the original before it was deleted and don’t appear to have been offended by it. So I thought I would re-post it. The changed bit comes after the wedding quotes. It might be a little different to the original but you get the idea.
“I asked him what kind of a wedding he wished for,
He said one that would make me his wife.”
For several years I acted as the Wedding Coordinator at an historic church here in Wellington. New Zealand is a very young country, so historic in this instance is only some 140 years. However, I enjoyed my time there and loved being involved with so many brides and grooms. Each year we had around 90 weddings, so there were plenty of people for me to interact with.
For whatever reason, today I found myself looking through some of the poems that had been read at the ceremonies. Of course, there were those that were used again and again, eg from Captain Corelli’s Mandolin
“….Love itself is what is left over when being in love has burned away,
and this is both an art and a fortunate accident.
Those that truly love, have roots that grow towards each other underground,
and when all the pretty blossom have fallen from their branches,
they find that they are one tree and not two…”
and the Apache Blessing
“Now you will feel no rain,
for each of you will be shelter for the other.
Now you will feel no cold,
for each of you will be warmth to the other.
Now there will be no loneliness,
for each of you will be a companion to the other.
Now you are two persons,
but there is only one life before you….”
and of course 1 Corinthians 13
“… Love suffers long and is kind; love does not envy; love does not parade itself, is not puffed up; 5does not behave rudely, does not seek its own, is not provoked, thinks no evil; does not rejoice in iniquity, but rejoices in the truth; bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things…”
And many others.
And then I wondered about synchronicity being at work. When I opened my emails today I found this. I apologise wholeheartedly to my blogging friends in Virginia but it is posted without malice.
Have a good day
- Weddings (growingyoungereachday.wordpress.com)
- Wedding Bells and Writing Ideas (plowingthefields.wordpress.com)
- “It was no different than any other wedding I’ve attended when you have two people who are in…” (shortformblog.com)