My Gratitude List

This will be an ever evolving page as I intend to add to it as and when..

I am grateful for:

  • The 41 years I spent with Bob.  I say I grew up with Bob Baxter.

Bob's 60th Birthday

  • My supportive daughter, son and their families. They are always there for me and their love got me through the dark, dreadful days when Bob died.
  • The love of my 4 grandsons and the fact that they each allow me to share in some of their life
  • The smile on the face of those same grandsons when they see me.
  • My two sisters one in Los Angeles and one in London so we don’t see each other very often
  • Email so that I can easily keep in touch with my sisters
  • My wonderful friends who too are always there for me
  • The unconditional love of my Tibetan Spaniel.  Unfortunately, Lotte had to be put to sleep in March 2013.  I still miss her.
  • Lotte on desk
  • The food in the larder and refrigerator
  • Fresh and plentiful water to drink
  • My inquiring mind
  • Clothes to keep me warm
  • House through trees
  • My lovely, warm and secure house. I’ve now moved on but still have a warm, safe place to call home
  • Ability to walk, smile, talk and laugh
  • Money in my wallet and in the bank
  • And now some days later I forgot to be so grateful for being a breast cancer survivor of almost 11  17 years.
  • My parents for the love and support they gave me and for the great childhood they afforded me.
  • For my Father who’s faith in his three daughters and their ability to do and be whatever they wanted knew no bounds.
  • The people that my children have chosen to marry and spend the rest of their lives with.
  • My strong healthy body although it is perhaps slowing down a little as I age.
  • The absolute and complete recovery I made after my accident in 2016 that resulted in Traumatic Brain Injury.
  • The wonderful and caring staff and therapists at the rehabilitation centre.
  • The 22 months I spent with ny Late Love and the fun and adventures we shared.
  • Living in this land of plenty and the freedoms it affords me.
  • The ability to access beaches and bush within minutes drive from my home.
  • The different places I have lived around the world and the friends I have made there.
  • The friends I have made on my holiday travels to other countries.
  • My good friends and three sisters of choice I have made in the blogosphere.

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49 responses to “My Gratitude List

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  2. Thank you for finding my blog. I love your attitude, your outlook on life, and your decision to take control of your health and your attidude! I’ll be reading you from now on.

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  3. Thank you. I have subscribed to read your blogs also.

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  6. What a nice idea: a gratitude list! Makes me stop and think of all the things I am grateful for.

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    • Thanks for the comment. Yes we all have so very much to grateful for and we do need to stop and think about these things. I vocalize these things each morning in the shower. somehow saying them out loud gives them more power.

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  9. Judith
    You have a lovely family! Gratitude- I have so much to be thankful for, good health, family, friends, and able to work to take care of myself. It’s a beautiful world, we get out of it- what we put into it !!!

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    • Thank you Penny. And when I look around at others I realize just how much I have to be grateful for, And I agree we get out of life what we put into it.

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  10. Judith, You have been reading my blog and leaving comments. Thank you so much. When I was in elementary and middle school I had a pen pal from New Zealand, her name was Debra. Now, at 43 I get a blogging buddy from New Zealand. Yea!
    I too was a widow. My husband passed when I was just 32 yrs. old. Our son was 5 at the time. I remarried several years later, to a man that was also a widower. We both now co-facilitate a GriefShare group together.(griefshare.org)
    You also read The Life Of A Country Man’s Wife, so do I!
    Blogging is a lot of fun, and I so enjoy “meeting” new people. Thanks so much for your comments:) I look forward to reading your blog.

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    • I don’t know how I found your blog but I do so enjoy reading it.
      I like the thoughts and reflections of younger women and you are not only younger than me but also younger than my children.
      I shall keep reading your blog. I think I am subscribed but if not, will do so right now.
      Judith 🙂

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  11. You are an inspiration, Judith! So glad to have “met” you!

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  12. I have seen you comment on several blogs and thought I would pay you a visit. I am exactly between your age and your daughter’s age and have enjoyed reading what you have here. Love your gratitude list. Very nice page.

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    • Georgette – Apologies I don’t know how I missed your comment. Thanks for the lovely things you said. I have been following your blog although maybe I haven’t made too many comments. That will be rectified!

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  14. Wonderful gratitude list! Beautiful thoughts! I have one on my blog, and, after reading it, realized I could go on, and on, and on, and on, day after day after day, and never come to an end of the things I’m grateful for!

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    • Thank you for the comment. Aren’t we lucky to have so much for which to be grateful? I noticed that the pictures disappeared from the page – I have now reinstated them.

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  15. I love your list. Thanks for sharing. An attitude of gratitude is what makes for healthy living.

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    • Thanks for the comment. I truly believe that if we encourage an attitude of gratitude inour children and grandchildren the world will become a better place.
      BTW I have just been over to your blog. I shall return often.

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  16. What a wonderful idea! Thank you for sharing what makes you happy

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  17. dianne - life as i see it

    that’s a wonderful list.. ;o)

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  19. Hey There. I found your blog using msn. This is a very well written article. I will make sure to bookmark it and come back to read more of My Gratitude List | I choose how I will spend the rest of my life . Thanks for the post. I’ll definitely comeback.

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  20. This is a wonderful and endearing post. Gave me lots to think about. Thank you.

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  21. Thank you for this adorable post. This has inspired me to write my gratitude list. Also Thanks for your visit and comment on my post. I look forward to your future posts.

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  22. Best wishes in your new lifestyle. It is quite a change after so many years alone.

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  23. http://jackiespeaksit2014.wordpress.com/weekly-writing-challenge-dpchallenge/ that makes me want to add my “gratitude” list to my new blog. You do inspire me and your readers and I hope to do that this year too- I am in college age 47 ugh…wish me luck…

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  24. Your wonderful approach to gratitude is most inspiring, Judith. I’l start my gratitude list right away! ❤
    Big *hug* to you from Norway. 🙂
    Dina x

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  26. So much to be grateful for. I love it!!

    I’m grateful for new friendships, especially ones that wouldn’t otherwise happen without the power of the internet. 😀

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  27. Hi Judith,
    I’m pleasantly surprised my blog made it all the way to Australia. When I have more time, I want to follow some of your blogs and advice. Next week I will conclude my sharing of this book. I’m not sure in what direction I want to take my blog. I noticed you went through some personal grief. I lost my husband last January. I wrote about him in my book. We had been together for over 35 years. I’m getting stronger, but I feel like a ball bouncing in an empty room (no set direction). It’s early to make any decisions, but I don’t even know what I want to do for the remainder of my years. Thank you again, for following and commenting on my writing. HUGS

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  28. Hi Chuck. Thanks for commenting.
    Life moves on with or without our loves. As a Life Coach, I dealt with many people trying to move on after loss, and I wrote a short book on surviving grief and loss but it hasn’t been published yet. So I’m looking at self-publishing. Is this the way you went?
    BTW I’m in New Zealand, not Australia. They’re our big cousins across the dutch. Hugs

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  29. Hi Judith! Has your book been published yet?
    Sorry, that Lotte had to be put to sleep. My friend in the Southern Highlands of NSW owns a Tibetan Spaniel named Bentley. I believe Bentley is not very old yet.

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    • Hello Uta. In the end I just printrd the book and gave away copies to my grieving clients and friends and family members dealing with loss. I called it Stepping Stones. I might telook at making it an ebook.

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      • This is very good that you could help like this. I am sure an ebook would help a lot of people too. Gerard, my friend in the NSW Southern Highlands, went through a major grieving process after two of his children died, one in Melbourne and the other one in Thailand. And then a few years later his wife died of cancer!

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    • Lotte was only 5. But she had a massive heart attack and had to be put to rest. 10 years on and I still miss her.

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    • Lotte was on,y 5 but she had a major hrar attack and I had to put my brave darling
      to rest. 10 years on and I still miss her.

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  30. This is really very sad, that she had to die so young. I hope nothing like this is going to happen to Bentley. Gerard would be devastated.
    Judith, have you thought of getting a new dog?

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