The Year Best Forgotten

Hope smiles from the threshold of the year to come, 
Whispering ‘it will be happier’…” 
― Alfred Lord Tennyson

Christmas came and went amid the usual flurry of last minute preparations, enjoyment and laughter. For us here in Aotearoa/New Zealand, there was nothing to stop our usual celebrating with family and friends. Not so for the rest of the world, where the deadly virus continues to expand and multiply. I wonder just how long we can stay immune.

Then New Year. Again, we celebrated as usual. However, this year there was limit on the numbers of folk who could gather in one place. Again, of course, there are those who spoil things for the majority by not heeding the rules. We can only hope that there will be no dreadful outcome from this.

And so I thought back on the year Best Forgotten.

2020 started with the usual bang. Huge fireworks displays the world over. As a grump, I wondered if some if not all of the money squandered in this way, would be better directed to assisting the homeless.

Here in Aotearoa we first became involved in March when the elderly (that’s me) were advised to stay home and stay away; then the rest of the country was also in lockdown. Our Government acted strongly, decisively and quickly. Borders were closed, incoming passenger flights stopped and generally, the populace accepted the order to sty home. We of course, do know just how fortunate we are. We share no borders with other countries, we are an island nation, there are only five million of us, and our Prime Minister was willing to act on advice received.

So over the next few months, we worked down from Alert level 4, through 3 and 2, to now be at Level 1, And most of us do realise just how very lucky we are.

Now that year has passed and we can only look forward to a better future.

When reading emails today, I came across this, from Jeff at Murder is Everywhere. Jeff is an American author, who chooses to live most of the year in Mykonos in Greece.

And from Jeff’s blogpost I copied for your amusement/entertainment, the following thoughts about that year –

1.     The dumbest thing I ever bought was a 2020 planner.

2.     I was so bored I called Jake from State Farm just to talk to someone.  He asked me what I was wearing.

3.     2019:  Stay away from negative people.  2020:  Stay away from positive people.

4.     The world has turned upside down.  Old folks are sneaking out of the house and their kids are yelling at them to stay indoors!

5.     This morning I saw a neighbor talking to her dog.  It was obvious she thought her dog understood her.  I came into my house and told my cat.  We laughed a lot.

6.     Every few days try your jeans on just to make sure they fit.  Pajamas will have you believe all is well in the kingdom.

7.     Does anyone know if we can take showers yet or should we just keep washing our hands?

8.    This virus has done what no woman has been able to do.  Cancel sports, shut down all bars and keep men at home!

9.     I never thought the comment, “I wouldn’t touch him/her with a 6-foot pole”, would become a national policy, but here we are!

10.   I need to practice social-distancing from the refrigerator.

11.   I hope the weather is good tomorrow for my trip to the backyard.  I’m getting tired of the living room.

12.   Never in a million years could I have imagined I would go up to a bank teller wearing a mask and ask for money.

And now I leave you with this quote from T S Elliot. Did he foresee 2020 all those years ago. His quote is most appropriate.

For last year’s words belong to last year’s language 
And next year’s words await another voice.” 

7 responses to “The Year Best Forgotten

  1. Nice read Judith. I hope your dreams for 2021 come true. That feels strange. That’s the first time I’ve written out the year. I’m hoping we’ve learned from this past year and I like your idea of diverting fireworks money to the homeless. I know we can’t sit around any more waiting for someone to do something about all the things that are needing the human touch or hands off approach. I’m thinking of the stories of endangered turtles coming back to lay eggs on quiet beaches. It’s nice to think, maybe, nature will forgive us. Health and happiness for the new year.


    • Hi Donna and whether you are in cold Canada or warm Mexico, I wish you a peaceful and joyous New Year. I agree, we can’t wait for the right time, or the right someone to come along to make start on healing our world. And starting with the homeless would be a great start.


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  3. Happy New Year, Judith. So pleased to hear you are well and safe. Your country did handle things very well. We are fine in our corner of Spain too. All the best for 2021. xo


    • Thanks Darlene. Yes, we handled it so well but of course, we have also been lucky in many ways. Take care. Keep Amanda travelling – who knows, she might just end up in Aotearoa sometime. I hope 2021 is great for you, too. xo

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  4. What a perfect post to usher in the new year! Lots of hilarious quotes looking back at 2020. And how lucky you are where you are. HAPPY WISHES coming your way from your other sister in the new world.


    • Thanks Dor. And of course, happy wishes are reciprocated. Life is strange for my birth sisters and my sisters of choice in other parts of the world. The virus appears to be in control, but that too will change. Take care of each other.


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