“Sometimes I need
only to stand
wherever I am
to be blessed.”
― Mary Oliver, Evidence: Poems
I went into town today to meet a friend for coffee. Unfortunately for me but fortunately for her, she had promised to take her grandson to the movies, so it was a very short meeting. After she left, I had another coffee and thought about what I would do until my driver picked me up one hour later.
So here I was out on my own for the first time in 12 weeks. It seemed like some retail therapy was called for. I made it to only one department store almost opposite where we had coffee, but I felt pleased with myself for trying this.
I bought some tights, some makeup and a new perfume. So al in all a good use of an unexpected free hour. And to finish off, while I waited for the driver, I bought some handmade chocolates from the chocolate shop.
Then home again with my caring and careful driver. I’m so lucky that I have access to these women in Driving Miss Daisy. They are all in their 50s and 60s and really look after me.
A quick lunch and then onto the bed for a nanny nap.
Another milestone reached and overcome.
How lovely for you. That little bit of independence has got to feel great.
Enjoy your chocolate reward!
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Thanks Joss Small steps, major achievements
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Good for you, Judith. The opportunity presented itself and you took it. Small steps lead to bigger ones and your confidence will grow. The chocolates were a very good idea!
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Thanks Jill. It felt really good to achieve that goal. Who know what the next tick will be
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Good for you, Judith. Small steps lead to bigger ones and your confidence will grow. The chocolates were a good idea!
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I’m full of admiration for you, Judith. Well done! What a blessing that organisation is, And what lovely ladies they must be.
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Thanks Cat. Amazing how things I’ve always taken for granted now become so important.
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Good going my friend! An unplanned step toward healing, successfully accomplished.
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Thanks dear friend. Looking forward to speaking with you in a few days.
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Retail therapy is the best! Good for you. One step at a time….. xo
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And I get the benefit of new perfume and makeup. Thanks for caring Darlene
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I am so happy for you Judith! A whole hour on your own for shopping therapy is so gratifying. And you have me craving those hand dipped chocolates! 🙂
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Hi Dor. Well the chocolates didn’t last long but the were great while they lasted. Now onwards and upwards
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Shopping for a little make-up is great therapy! At 80 my sister lives alone and depends on a van from the senior center to take her to doctors’ appointments, shopping and other errands. It is a blessing for her and it helps her keep her independence. One of her favorite drivers is a Black man and he jokes about “driving Miss Daisy.” They are indeed wonderful people! I am so glad that you have found temporary assistance! We do have we have to as we get older!
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Thanks Jo Nell. Looking forward to being able to drive to gain my independence. But meantime I’m enjoying the new friends I’ve made in Driving Miss Daist.
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I vaguely remember when going for a nap seemed like a punishment… How things have changed. I now keep going as long as I can, and when the time eventually arrives, a nap feels like a reward. 😊
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Hi Sallyann. I don’t know how I missed these comments. Thanks for sharing – yes a nap is a blessing at times
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Sounds like a lovely afternoon; coffee with a friend, out on your own shopping, a ride home, and a nap. And chocolate! Good to hear you are feeling stronger and healthier.
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Oh and now I have found some earlier comments that I haven’t addressed. Very sorry Patricia. When one has a whole day to oneself it appears that little gets done. Thanks for your comment.
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No worries…I am just happy that you are being restored to good health and writing again.
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I’m glad you were able to make the most of that unexpected hour. What a blessing to have someone to drive you and look after you well.
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Another missed comment. Once again apologies. it’s amazing how one takes these small things for granted i’ll try not to do so in future.
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Hi, Judith! I’m behind on reading, but I’ve saved the links to your blog posts. Always good to hear from you.
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Yay, for you!!! Love from your Big Sister.
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Thanks A small step for a woman but large step forward for me.
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What a lovely day filled with sunny accomplishment. Thanks for sharing this memory!
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